I have long considered myself bisexual, since I would date both men and women. I do find people attractive or better looking than others and I have preferences. I'm currently married to my husband.

However, I don't enjoy sex. Well, I kind of do, but only because I love being close to my husband and I know he enjoys it. I never initiate and never actually get turned on mentally.

I am able to masturbate and orgasm, but I do it purely for the physical feeling and if I even think about sex or what I'm doing to myself, I have to stop because I just can't do it. I never watch porn. I have been on pornhub for other random reasons, but I literally get so disgusted looking at naked people having sex. I feel nauseated and disgusting and literally can't look at it. I can't look at penises, vaginas, or assholes unless I'm doing it for medical reasons.

I do find my husband attractive, and I tell him all the time that we're going to make beautiful children. But anything related to sex just...I can't. He knows this and he's fine with it. We maybe only have sex once or twice a month. He knows how to make me feel good and does an amazing job at "desexualizing" sex the best he can for me.

But because we still have sex, does that mean I can't be asexual?