Help please 🥴

I hadn't until last year during Lockdown. It's just not something that had ever interested me. I tried it because I was bored and found I loved it but bmthat was just when I was ready. Don't push yourself until you want to try it.

You should do it if you want to, not because you think it’s weird not to. But if you do decide to try, there is no shame in that. It’s good for stress relief and figuring out what you like. You can use your hands or a toy, or you can get creative with things you already have like a pillow (to rub on) or a detachable shower-head. Most women enjoy focus on the clit, but some like penetration. Being in the right mindset is just as important. You can watch something, but since most free porn is catered to men, you could also use your imagination or read erotica.But again, only do it if you really want to. He sounds annoying for making a judgement on you like that anyway.

I fell the same way! I’ve recently tried, just because I think that it’s important that I know my own body. But it just isn’t my thing! Decided to let my partner do all the dirty work.

There’s nothing wrong with the fact that you haven’t. Everyone is different. I’d find a medical source to learn more about it. And if it’s not something you want to do, you don’t have to. No shame in that.