Relationship help

Do you guys feel that in a relationship it’s good for someone to understand your mental Health ? My boyfriend tries to be sentimental and etc but also doubles back and would say people who kill themselves are “ weak “. This was when I was questioning my life . Or even when I’m depressed , says he will never understand why I’m hard on myself . He sent me this heart felt message and doubled back and said “ you do all this to yourself , you changed the vibe of relationship . That’s all because of “my name ““ as if I didn’t beat myself up enough for overthinking and being depressed ...