Annoying husband - SAHM

I’m so sick and tired of my husband bringing up the fact that he works and I stay at home. I’m tired of it. (Side note. We both agreed that it is the best option for me to stay at home with our baby. Like he decided it too). He literally was like “we are making $40,000 less bc you’re out of work. I work my butt off making sure our house is always clean and dinner is always cooked. I’m so sick of being treated like this. Then he always apologizes later. But it doesn’t make up for him being emotionally abusive to begin with. I just needed to vent on here. I can’t talk to anyone about it and I’m so sick of keeping it to myself. I just need advice on how to deal with a husband who keeps doing this. I’m trying not to get that mad but he just keeps doing it like every other day. Ugh it’s so frustrating.