My husbands friend from when he was in the military is getting married May 29 and im due April 24 with our second. He lives in Kansas we live in Idaho. I’m trying to decide if I should go to the wedding obviously having to travel with a newborn at about a month old and have family watch my 5 year old or just let him go and I stay behind and take care of a newborn for a few days by myself with postpartum depression and what not all by myself. What would you do in this situation, for me both options suck but I’m not going to tell my husband he can’t go to his best friends wedding.

I don’t need the pandemic advice either. My husband is still going whether I go or not he is the best man. All I need is if you would travel with a newborn or just stay home for a couple days.