When was the first time you were sexualized? **possible TW***

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Hello everyone I’m back with a different type of post. An open dialogue to tell your story if you are comfortable.

An interesting post on buzzfeed showed up for me and I wanted to bring it here. This may open some wounds for some of us so if you don’t want to comment it’s ok.

But here it goes:

I will share my story I was 11 and got my period had boobs that didn’t fit a training bra and I’ve had that uncomfortable stares from men while I was playing outside or going swimming. I was in the 5th grade and already looked slightly like a teenage girl. I hated every single bit of it.

I got my first stalker at 13 he was over 45 and left notes at a “friend’s” house that loved next door to me. Her mother blamed me and made her stop talking to me even though I had no damn clue wtf was going on. When I read his love letter I got so scared because he told me he knew which room I slept in and would be waiting to take me out of my window that night.

My screamed for my mom and let her read it and we called the cops. He was mentally unstable and mostly just walked the streets. I had never really ever saw him before but he was watching me and told the cops we were in love and I was his girlfriend!!