Hello all, I’m an 18 y/o who isn’t taking any kind of birth control, but using condoms with my boyfriend. I’m scaring myself into thinking I’m pregnant and would love if anyone has good insight and wanted to see if this anxiety is worthwhile.

I had my period, went to see my bf in the next town over from Jan 29-31th, right as my fertile period was on the way, and then came home. We had sex 3 times and he always pulls out before he’s finishing to be extra sure, but i’m worried because i think we reused a condom that i accidentally tried to put on backwards. We have done this before and no problems. We also didn’t pinch the tip, but the condom always has ‘breathing room’ for his sperm to catch in at the end, and the condom has never broken on us before. Neither of these things were taught to me in health and i learned both 10 min ago.

Every since a few days ago, maybe 7 days after we last had sex, my boobs started hurting, my legs feel tired and my vagina tastes sour, which isn’t a common scent for me. I also think I spotted 2-3 days after we had sex, but i’m not entirely sure because I never logged it for some reason, but what came out was just some blood on the tissue paper. My vagina also feels a bit looser? The back end gets caught when i wipe sometimes. Sore boobs is the biggest sign that I’m about to get my period, but by now I have 8 or so days until I’m supposed to be on my period, and normally I dont start PMSing until 2-5 days ahead. My period was irregular for most of my life, but consistently evened out by the time I turned 18 in August, and I lost my virginity in late December if that’s relevant.

I’m really freaking myself out. I’m a college student with a lot of big plans living in a state that doesn’t allow abortions. My parents and boyfriend are here for me no matter what, but I don’t have the mental capacity to think about being pregnant and getting an abortion right now. Both my mom and my bf think it’s nothing to worry about, but I just cant help but overanalyze.

Thanks