Me and my husband fostered a teenager who was 14. He is 15 now and legally adopted. We have been through a lot with him. It took him a while to trust us, and to help him through his trauma. He is a very smart and loving kid, he just need some TLC. His biological mother tried to reach out to us through his sister. His biological mother's rights were terminated before he even came to us and she is not allowed to have contact with him. That is how serious the situation was. He has opened up about his mom more and there was a lot of severe abuse and things that she should have gotten more time in jail for. Honestly I think she should die in jail for what she put him through. We had a situation months ago where his mom sent me a friend request on Facebook and I deleted it. Well her sister sends me a message through Instagram. I don't understand how she found out we were the ones who even have him. He doesn't have social media and we do not post about him because his biological family is very dangerous and them finding him can be dangerous. But his biological moms sister sent me a message saying how his mom is wondering how he's doing and that she loves him and she was hoping if she could talk to him at some point. It was really long but thats the main point. I blocked. I will not put him through that, plus I can get in trouble because contact is not allowed. If he turns 18 and wants to talk to her that's a different story, but as a minor I can get in a lot trouble for allowing her to see him. He doesn't even really like talking about his mom and he's had panic attacks when he sees someone who looks like his mom in public. So even if contact wasn't forbidden, I still wouldn't put him in a situation like that. I don't want to get police involved but if she keeps trying to contact me, whether its her directly or though a 3rd party, I will.