Ive been dating this guy but weren’t official. Meaning he never asked me to be his girl friend but we’ve had the conversation that i didnt want to share him. I have been exclusively with just him and hes known that. Ive recently found out he got the other girl he was with, pregnant. We talk about this, we cried, im still in disbelief. Its still soon, he doesnt really know if its his. Him and i have been through a lot (family problem,etc) and have come along way to get to a good point in the 2 years. It took this for him to really come out and tell me how he really felt about me. I love all of him, the good and the bad. I dont know if i can get past this.

I know its wrong of me to hope that its not his. And if it is i do wish the child to be healthy and loved. Im not a cruel person.

As for now im not keeping contact with him but i cant shake this feeling in my gut that we deserve another chance. That this needed to scare him into not being afraid of loving me and letting go.

Any advise.