Curious.... did you get your husband anything? Anything for your LO?

Last night (like 8pm) my husband was talking about needing to go to the store to get flowers/card. I’m like, “I didn’t think we were doing anything because there has been no conversation about it (granted we aren’t eating out).” I had to explain to him that none of my girlfriends plan VD. Zero. This isn’t our first VD together (clearly), so I have no clue what he’s thinking. But the lack of planning or even thought just kinda ruins it for me (on top of some other things). But now I feel bad about not getting my son anything.