Conflicted

I’ve been best friends with this guy for about 7 years or so. We’ve always been flirting & going to one another for advice. The tension between us has been pretty thick.

So as you might have guessed it we slept together & I mentioned how content & happy I am being with him.

Neither of us mentioned anything, but being me I wanted to know if this meant something or was just a hook up. I admitted my feeling a to him thinking they were mutual, except it wasn’t.

I’m a little upset, but more over the fact that we haven’t been talking as much lately.

And I can’t just casually hook up, I’m in love with him. I would want it to mean the same going both ways.

Any tips or pieces of advice? I’m open to anything

P.S.

I wasn’t expecting him to say he feels the same, but his little loving gestures & the way he’s talk to me made me feel as though it as mutual