I wrote a post I believe last week..

My bf and I have been together for a month, barely a month. (I’m 26 he’s 25) starting off he was all about me, (the whole dating before) every weekend would ask me out on a date and I thought wow I finally found a person who’s putting so much time and effort. Now, I wrote how he wants constant communication and he’s constantly just wants to be with me. Example-

We spend all weekend together, but sometimes I have my daughter so I tell him I can’t and he asks to drive over here so I can at least be outside with him for an hour. On weekdays morning he calls to be on the phone for an hour or longer until I have to work, sometimes I even tell him “I have to get ready” or “I have to eat” and he responds “and? Stay on the phone” I feel so drained now. So so suffocated.

This past weekend I had my daughter and he came of course Friday so I can be outside with him and Saturday he wanted to do the same but I had it I lied and said I couldn’t because blah blah blah, instead he wants to be on the phone then. Yesterday for Valentine’s we went to dinner and I felt like I had nothing more to give him. We talk so much on the phone and there’s literally nothing to talk about in person. He’s constantly wanting to be on the phone and talking about how much I love him “how good we are for each other” we talk about the same shit everyday now. I’m starting to not even get excited to see him anymore because we see each other AND talk on the phone 24/7...

yesterday for Valentine’s he already made a comment about visiting me today. Ladies it’s becoming too much and someone had told me he was love bombing me? What is this? How can I approach him and tell him but not hurt him. I just want him to understand we don’t need to be on the phone 24/7

He claims he’s neverrrrr been like this before, it’s because he found the “one”

I thought eventually this will go away, will it?

Forgot to add on weekdays he wants to come over 2/3xs a week and weekends is already considered “us” time.

I have one daughter so I don’t have so much free time, I feel like now I have absolutely 0 free time.

Yesterday after I got home from dinner, I showered my daughter, & just wanted to relax on my bed.. he calls me and asked if that’s all I was doing why couldn’t I call him and talk.. I felt like crying because of this. Just too much