How does your partner initiate sex?

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My husband hardly ever initiates first, but when he does it's usually on a Sunday in the middle of the day and he just wants to get naked and get straight in the bed.  I do wish it could be more slow and romantic, anyways wondering what other people's experience is like.

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My husband hasn't initiated sex since our wedding night. At first it really bothered me but as time has gone on I've come to realize that it's okay. Do I wish he'd put more effort into it...definitely!! But I have the higher sex drive in our relationship and I've learned that it's okay to ask for it if I want it. While we don't have sex nearly as much as I'd like, the sex we do have is amazing! And just when I think he's doing it just because I want it and is not really into it, I find hickeys on my body and know that he really did enjoy himself. It's been a learning curve but we have our whole lives to figure it out.

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He’d start rubbing me and just goes down .. and the rest is history 😂

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My husband usually initiates it. It could be any day of the week at any time. He has a healthy set drive thank goodness and so do I. I'm pregnant at the moment though and I have been so tired and not in the mood. I still do it though if he wants some

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It’s different every time. Sometimes mid day, morning, or night. Sometimes we wait for the kids to nap then go in our room and have a quickie then cuddle after. Sometimes we shower and have sex right before bed. Sometimes we wake up in the middle of a deep sleep and have sex. I’d just tell him he needs to be more spontaneous. Maybe you should initiate too?

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My husband will start rubbing my back and kissing my back/neck and then it kinda goes from there. 
Just tell him you’d like some foreplay!! Communication is key. I had to talk to my husband about it before we got married. He used to big spoon me and basically dry hump me with a boner then put it in LOL it was terrible and after I talked to him about it he’s put soooo much more effort into initiating it and I am so much happier. Our sex life is healthier too.

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Depends. We have different work schedules, he’s on nights and I’m on days, so it depends if it’s a work day or not, if I’m off, what’s going on. Sometimes he’ll just start kissing me or trying to pull off my clothes, other times he’ll make out with me and start caressing me and will pull me into some other room, and I definitely prefer that most times as it gets me more in the mood than straight ripping my clothes off lol.

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It really depends. If we are trying to get out the door before we are late late work, he walks up behind me and starts rubbing on my hips and ask if I wanna a quick before work. The answer is always absolutely😂
When we are home he will light candles, sometimes he will start me a bubble bath, rub my back and my legs, start kissing on me. 
He is normal pretty good at trying to initiate sex romantically. 
But there are time we are very romantic about lol and that's okay with us too. We both have high sex drives so if we made every time over the top romantic, I think it would get exhausting lol

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My boyfriend always initiates sex, especially now that I’m 30 weeks.. I just don’t have the drive I used to and I feel like my belly is just extremely in the way, along with my rib pain which makes me not want it as much..

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My spouse would usually just start kissing my sweet spots on me neck & just run his hands on my body! lol He’s usually the one to initiate sex, rarely ever me😅

How does your partner initiate sex?

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