My husband gets 12 weeks of paid paternity leave through his job, but I get none. I’m the primary breadwinner so guess who gets to go back to work after 8 weeks? Because 8 weeks is all we can afford after PTO and savings. But he gets another 4 weeks even though I made and pushed the baby out. Great that he gets time. I guess I feel entitled since it’s me that goes through the physical effort of making and having the baby...

Would anyone else be irritated by this or am I looking at it the wrong way?