Family can sometimes hurt you🥺

So my fiancé and I are getting married very soon. Very big important path in our relationship. And none of my family has played a part to even be there and it really hurts. My fiancé’s family is throwing a get together to celebrate our decision today and invited my family to come and none of my family is coming. It’s nothing large it’s just his mom and few brothers and then it would of been my small side of the family (mom, dad and grandma) well my mom told me she wasn’t comfortable coming because she doesn’t know anyone and honestly has ever been pet of my life as is. My grandma just doesn’t want to come, and my dad sadly can’t because he lives 2 hours away and has to work which I understand because he’s just dealing with some person financial issues. But I’m like it hurts that my mom doesn’t want to be part of our decision to become married and like met my significant others mom and what not