My husband and I have been a lot of issues. We started going for counselling sessions but I don’t think it’s helping.

Our therapist told me that he has moderate depression (he started crying in the first session,etc.)

He called me after his session and told me that Sara (therapist) told him that he has depression. We were conversing about it and while not pushing him around this topic, I very casually asked if he knows the trigger. He said, maybe it’s you, us? I don’t know.

What I’m unable to understand is that he’s absolutely fine while at work or with his business colleagues or when it’s something that interests him (like playing with our baby) . He’s chirpy, happy, talking about the bright future.

As soon as it comes to anything relating to me, he lashes out. Starts being mean, uninterested.

I can’t seem to fathom if it’s all a drama or if this can be a shade of depression?

Please help. I’m mentally and emotionally exhausted.