DRY Lady Parts 🥴😭

I’ve used several birth control methods since the age of 17 up until about 23 years old. I noticed first with the patch that I’d have dryness. I would be turned on and “in the mood” but my lady parts wouldn’t respond for ANYTHING! You can only imagine how confusing and embarrassing that is especially at 18 and having no issues in that department before. But now i’m 25 and this shits still happening. I’ve been to OBs who just tell me to use lubricants but nobody ever tries to give me a REAL solution. How to get my body responding naturally. Anyone have any advice or has had this issue before?