Am I wasting my time ???

I would love some advice from ladies in their 20s or older.

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years. We met when I was 20 and he was 22. Now I am 25 And he is 27.

We don’t live together yet but I have been asking him to move in together. He doesn’t seem to be interested in moving in together, getting engaged, getting married or having children.

I had a pregnancy scare recently, and he was actually pretty mad about it. I started my period and he was happy that I wasn’t pregnant but his reaction made me upset.

Honestly, I was a bit excited when I thought that I could be pregnant.

We have been together for a long time and I feel comfortable with him. I have explained my feelings about how I am starting to think about marriage and children. The older I get, the more strongly I feel about them. He won’t tell me when he wants those things. He just says “one day”.

Do you ladies think I am wasting my time and might resent him in the future if I am 38, not married and never had children ???

Because I am scared of that.

But I do love him and I don’t want to be with anyone else. But I also don’t want to be not married and never have children.

Any advice????