Rainbow Baby 🌈 When does it get easier?

Question

Just found out we are pregnant again after having my first miscarriage in December 2020. I had a horrible experience with the Doc office I was going to so I moved offices and will be going on Wednesday for the confirmation appointment. Me and my husband are so terrified and just keep saying we will not feel at ease until this child is here! We have an 18 month old daughter, who is incredible and smart! We want to be excited but after going through a miscarriage I’m not sure I’ll be able enjoy pregnancy like I did with my 1st! Any advice for a struggling mama? I just want to be happy and excited but the worry and fear has taken over my mind!

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I have no advice. Miscarried my first in 2015. Stressed my way through pregnancy with our daughter in 2017. Had a missed miscarriage last year, and am currently 4 weeks 3 days pregnant and terrified all over again. I've never had a pregnancy that I could just relax and enjoy. All I know is fear. I try to just take it one day at a time. Some days are better than others, but the fear never actually goes away. 
My heart goes out to anyone and everyone who ever has experienced the loss of a child. Hang in there, mama.

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Just be excited and enjoy since there is nothing you can do but wait and see better to be happy and embrace and enjoy every second your healthy and pregnant then worry and wonder each day I had I miscarriage in July(4loss but 2 grosgrain babies before this one)  and when I found out in sept I was pregnant again I would tell myself everyday In this moment I’m pregnant and healthy and to smile

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I worried until I heard the heart beat and my OB told me chances of miscarriage go down dramatically. Plus he put me on progesterone to support the pregnancy. Plus he was the MOST COMPASSIONATE and accommodating physician I have ever encountered. Any time I was worried, he had me come in for an ultrasound just for reassurance. I’ve watched so many positive lines fade away...  until my miracle baby. I worried I wouldn’t be able to enjoy it also. But I think if you have support like that from your OB, it makes all the difference in the world. ❤️ deep breaths. Day by day.

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I miscarriage the week of Christmas and waiting to test for pregnancy now.... it’s time for our rainbow 🌈 babies 🤞🏽 .... the worry will never stop I know ur struggle trust me ... just relax please you give me HOPE

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