Ever dealt with a man with a “pick me!” ex? Example: she knows he’s in a relationship with you and she’s going all out her way to get back with him and asking why you and not her.

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That’s not a pick me girl that’s a home wrecker

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Our exes are out of our lives.. but thats very hard to do if one or both have children with that person.
But thats where boundaries come into it.. communication is key.
If he isn't doing that.. u might have to wonder why.. and why she thinks she's in with a chance.

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But I was the woman with a “pick me” ex

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Yup! Her and her friend were doing everything to get him back . Yet she cheated on him constantly and rubbed it in his face when she stayed with one of the guys she cheated on him with. Then he tells her he doesn’t care because he found someone and then she wouldn’t leave us alone and wanted him back. It worked for 2 months till he realized what he did . Now we are married and about to have our first baby lol.

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Just curious as to why your guy would still have contact with an ex like this? 🤔

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Assuming they don’t have children together, why is she even able to contact him? As soon as that bs started? Your partner should have blocked her as to not even entertain any bs.

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Not really no, I usually date people whose ex's are not interested or they've been single a very long time. 
And the one time this wasn't the case, I was fwb with a guy who was getting divorced & his ex wife came into the house when we were together to confront us 🙃 
He said he was divorced, but I guess that takes more than a 6 months... 
I let them talk & of course they fought & let her ask me questions about the nature of the relationship, and she said "well, we had a bad relationship for a really long time, we can be all friends, I hope. I'm sorry for bursting in like this, I just wanted to know what was going on."
I felt bad, like, she was pretty cool & extremely beautiful, and I think the situation hurt her even though she didn't seem to want him back. 
I found out why she didn't want him back after dating him too & I think why she was confused about the breakdown of her relationship. 
I sometimes think back to that & think it would be fun to talk about him with her now haha

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Never really was the dumpee always the dumper and if saw any of my exes with someone else I would wish them well. With Facebook and so many other ways to reconnect they have plenty of ways to find me if they wanted another chance with me doesn't necessarily mean they'll get it. Like one of my exes already had his 3 and my current beau sought me out for a 2nd chance when I was single and even though we're not going to be boyfriend and girlfriend in April we are keeping our decade long friendship.

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I have and she tried really hard until she realized he left her for a reason and that he was actually in love and happy then she just get really jealous and manipulative and screwed with us hard for a year or two and then she finally gave up as she finally found someone and became happy thank God

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I have in the past but my partner now made sure he cleared all of his exes before getting with me. He knew exactly what I was looking for & wanting to build from jump so ex drama just wouldn’t cut it for me. Sometimes bitches are just delusional but it’s always up to your man to read that entirely. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Ever dealt with a man with a “pick me!” ex? Example: she knows he’s in a relationship with you and she’s going all out her way to get back with him and asking why you and not her.

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