Genuinely curious: if you and your partner have made a sex tape, and you find out he’s been watching that sex tape to get off. Would you react the same as if he was watching porn or is it different.

Obviously like it varies from relationship to relationship, but I just randomly thought about it last night. Do you treat it as the same as watching porn or is it different because it’s you in the videos?

To add: I guess hypothetically I’m talking about the women I see who get pissed to find their husbands sneaking around watching porn, would you be as pissed to find your husband sneaking around watching a personal video.