I just started dating a new guy. We’ve only been together 2 months almost 3 and every time we’re talking or hanging out he turns everything sexual. No matter how many times I say I don’t want to do anything sexual or talk like that yet he always ends up saying “I’m a naturally sexual person”. Lately he’s been trying to lessen his sexual urges or at least he isn’t showing me as much which I appreciate. But he mentioned it’s just building up and he wants to come up with a compromise.

Any ideas or suggestions?

A little back story— I had a long serious relationship 2 years before this that has been taking a while to move on from. I want to ease back into all this at my own pace. I’m not a sexual person.