This shit is so stupid. Two weeks ago I made my husband a seafood boil . I didn’t like how it came out, it was too salty and spicy. I told him if he didn’t like it don’t feel obligated to eat it and he can

Throw it away. He said he liked it and he’s not throwing it away

Fast forward two days ago my sister threw my niece a seafood boil party . It was so good I loved it. So after the party my husband was helping my sister clean up as I was in the other room putting the baby to sleep . I hear him saying something “ yeah your seafood boil was way better she didn’t make it right. Not every body can make seafood”my sister replies well I make it all the time ...

So I’m Sitting here in my head saying wow was that necessary? What was the point of comparing anything I do to anyone even if it’s family. If he would’ve complimented the food I wouldn’t have got offended...

First of all we’ve been pescatarian for years so to say that some ppl can’t make seafood or something is like a slap in the face and an insult to my cooking. And I know I can cook.

Anyway y’all, two days later (TODAY) i went to him calmly and respectfully while we were home and by ourselves telling him how I love cooking for him and it’s something that I take pride in, and for him to make that statement to my sister, especially when I wasn’t present was something that offended me and that I would appreciate if he didn’t compare my cooking to anyone or to say that their exact meal was better than their wife’s even if it was. I wanted to have this conversation while I was calm and respectful because I know how he gets.

Omgggg he gets so loud and hype saying how it wasn’t like it was another woman who was my sister, I’m so insecure and going overboard. He said that he was being sarcastic and going around the fact that I asked him not to do it. He’s like so if we go to a restaurant and the chef food is better than yours than I can’t enjoy the food cause you didn’t make it???? I’m like yo what the hell no that’s not what I’m saying. He like you acting like I’m trying to date your sister. So I said you know what you don’t understand or respect the point that I trying to make so let’s end this conversation . He continues getting hype and going on about how wrong I am.

Yallllllllll this is everytime I try to have a private conversation