Holy pelvic pressure! also soft cervix?

Let me start by saying OUCH! haha I know pressure was coming but assumed it would come later on like my other 3 babies did. This girl has been pressing on my cervix ALL day, causing an immense amount of pressure down there. I'm 31wks so this feels early for all this. Anyone else feeling this?

P.s. I did check my cervix and please know I don't do it a lot and I know what I'm doing. I check my cervix to help take charge of my fertility so i know how my cervix normally feels. Anyways, I was surprised I could reach it and then even more surprised it was super soft and at least 1, possibly 2 but didn't want to irritate it to much, fingertips open. Anyone else a cervix checker and had a soft cervix this early?