Husband only wants one kid?

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I’m moving out of our house tomorrow with our two girls, husband cheated on me while I was 8 months pregnant. My daughter is now two weeks old and I’m finally able to leave. I asked my husband what days (if any) he wanted the girls and he said he only wants one of them at a time ?? Is this a normal thing? It feels unfair to me but idk what to say to him...

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Unpopular opinion. Is it normal to see one at a time, no. Your youngest is only 2 weeks old so he may not feel comfortable having both at the same time. For safety reasons I’d go with what he is comfortable with until he can watch both at the same time. It completely sucks, but again for me it’s a safety thing.

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I wouldn't even give him that option. You have to have all 3 so if he wants to see them he needs to get all 3

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Sounds like he’s tryna take the easy way out by only caring for one at a time because it’s easier.. who cares about him being overwhelmed! You’ve been overwhelmed for awhile if he cheated on you while pregnant! I would tell him Take them both at the same time or figure it out In Court. You clearly need a break as well seems like he’s been taking many! Stick up for yourself hun and do whatever you feel is right❤️ Praying you and your babies ❤️❤️❤️

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I don't think it's fair because it makes it so you can't get things done without children around.

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Hell no. Either takes all three at the same time or he sees none.

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I wouldnt be moving out of no house. He can pay bills and take care of these kids until im on my feet to do so. Its not right and its not fair.

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Haha one at a time? I think not. It's very odd and it keeps your children separated which isn't cool.

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Get a custody order with a set visitation schedule and put his cheating ass on child support. If he isn’t taking the newborn at first I wouldn’t disagree since these moments are very fragile but he should take both at some point. It’s not good to separate siblings. You both decided to be parents he needs to man tf up.

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Maybe you can take this as an opportunity to give your older child some extra attention when the younger one is with him.

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Either he takes them all or none! He clearly wants it easy for himself or he's using leaving you with one kid to make it difficult for you... maybe so you can't have anyone over 🤷🏻‍♀️

Husband only wants one kid?

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