Boyfriend not interested in sex

So My 23 year old boyfriend is almost never horny, which is something very uncommon in my opinion for men but you know that happens sometimes you know it’s normal. He keeps saying if I want sex and I have to try to turn him on, and like that completely just ruins it for me, cuz he wants me to give him head and stuff and I don’t like giving head and he wants me to do all the sexy stuff and I feel like I’m supposed to just already be sexy I think. I mean it’s not that I’m unattractive. And the. When I turn him on he assumes I don’t need turned on and goes straight to sex with no foreplay for me. And I tell him I need turned on and he dsnt listen. And I do the thing all is girls so when we want sex in the morning where I put my booty towards him and prop it up an make it look all yummy and stuff and that dsnt do it.  am I wrong here? Is it just me being emotional and sensitive at 14 weeks pregnant?