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When my boyfriend and I are having sex, I tense up so bad when he’s touching near my vagina. It’s so bad. I went through trauma as a little girl so i’m not sure if it’s because of that. He’s the 3rd guy i’ve had sex with and i don’t remember if it was like this with the other 2 guys. We’ve been together for 5 years and it’s gotten so bad. I wasn’t like this in the beginning. Does anyone has be advice for this?

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Have you done therapy work on this? If it’s getting worse, it’s a good time to be using the tools you’ve learned from therapy or acquiring new ones to learn to manage your trauma.

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I would maybe try sex counseling or going to the GYNO. I went to the GYNO & took my husband with me when sex became uncomfortable & hurt for a period of time. The doctor told us sometimes the nerves get very sensitive & you have to play around with yourself to get to a comfortable spot. She recommended my husband & I get a vibrating dildo to try on me first, that way my nerves are used to feeling something down there. 
Never did figure out why it was uncomfortable & hurt but it’s gone away since then!

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Sometimes past trauma doesn’t effect you until later in life, I’d try to talk to someone about it (therapist, doctor) to help you overcome this

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