Is it wrong to feel no connection with baby yet? 😕

I’m almost 12 weeks. I suffered two early miscarriages and tried so hard for this baby.I have so much love for this child but I feel very disconnected. It’s extremely healthy and growing but, I’ve been too sick and miserable to enjoy it. My body is changing so much and everything is so different. Let alone the stress of being prepared and transitioning to be the best mom I can be. When did you other mamas start connecting to your baby?? Is it normal to feel this way? I don’t want to look back and regret this feeling it all feels so fast.