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My mom the other day asked me to ask my husband if he likes this food that my mom was planning for dinner.. so tonight I asked him and he said yes I like that type of food I was like ok and then he added but if I didn’t like it or wanted then don’t give me shit! Or y’all don’t have to give me shit. I was like u are ungrateful person he then told me that he wasn’t ungrateful he said well I might tell u tonight that I want that food but maybe tomorrow I’m not up for it then I was like ok so I guess everyday I’ll text you on lunch break and I’ll ask you what do u feel like eating today? That way he can tell me what he feels like eating because I told him I don’t want to cook something that maybe you do t want to eat that day. He was like just cook anything and if I feel up to it I’ll eat it. Idk we got into this argument for just one simple question that I asked? Is this stupid ? Is he being ungrateful?

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Is women like to create our own problems sometimes. He saying cook what u like and if he eats he eats if not then not. Its that simple. Dont be texting that man burdening yourself everyday asking wht he wants . Cook your little hearts desire. Sometimes its ok to be selfish. And when he come home to peanut butter jelly sandwiches and a glass of almond milk then he will tell u what he likes.

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Huh? No. To me, I see, “cook whatever you want, don’t worry about me.” If he wants to eat it, he will, if not he won’t. Not a big deal. Now if he’s requesting you/your mom to cook something else, that’s a big problem. Otherwise, it seems like you’re really overreacting.

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I wouldn’t even ask what he wants since he wants to be a man child about it. I’d cook what I want and if he eats it then good but if not then he’s grown and can find something on his own.

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This is stupid but I don’t think he’s being ungrateful lol this is silly. Just cook whatever you want to cook if he wants to eat it, he’ll eat it and if he doesn’t then he can find something else to eat or starve 🙃 his choice 🤷🏼‍♀️ lol don’t sweat over it, it’s not a big deal. I cook all the time at home and if my bf doesn’t like something I cooked or a certain ingredient in the dish, he finds something else to eat but I don’t get offended because he might not always be up for chicken or steak or pasta, etc... lol

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He sounds very ungrateful & rude. I think you need to take the approach that I take towards children — I’m gonna cook what we have & if you don’t like it, guess you’re gonna go to bed hungry 🤷🏼‍♀️
I wouldn’t be sitting there planning out meals around his availability & what he feels like eating. Don’t text him & ask what he wants. Cook what you want & when he comes home to nothing & starts having to make his own meals, maybe he’ll learn to be more grateful.

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Honestly you’re doing too much for him. Trying to accommodate what he wants to eat each day. Yes you can ask what he’d like but if you’re planning on making a certain food already or your mom is then he eats if he wants to. He’s not a baby, he can go buy food or cook if it bugged him. When he made that comment about not giving him shit if he didn’t like it, I would have responded “I’m glad you agree because you can either eat it or stay hungry if you don’t like it or better yet you can go get your own food and even cook it”

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Yes he's being ungrateful, hes not doing all the cooking & he should appreciate coming home to a wife & a hot meal  otherwise his ass should be the one in the kitchen cooking for himself or buying takeout if he doesn't like it.

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No girl, you’re tripping. Cook whatever you want to cook and if he doesn’t want or like it, he can figure it out 🤷🏾‍♀️. You’re making it way too hard.

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