Long post about spirits/figures so bare with me!

To start off, I’m not a church going person. I do believe in god though. I just need to see if anyone believes me or has guidance on what to do. Anyways, I’ve always had things happening to me since I was a kid. Whether it be seeing figures every now and then, hearing noises, things getting moved around, etc. Well I live in my own house now, our neighborhood used to be an active military base, but isn’t anymore. When we first moved, we were seeing a taller figure dressed in a white tshirt, it was clearly a man. Both my fiancé and I seen it and one day I told him I was seeing it and he said that he had been seeing it too, but didn’t want to say anything to spook me. His dad passed away in 2018, and his mom said he passed in a white tshirt. So we thought okay maybe it’s him. Now fast forward, I’m always hearing things around the house every now and then, I’ll hear foot steps, things getting moved, I’ll hear bangs, my dogs will stare at random areas of the house, I see a figure, etc. I also took a video of my daughter one day dancing, and all the sudden an orb came around and went in circles around her, and then scurried off across the room. This orb had an orangey/pink/red tint to it and also had another glare of white in it. We also have my fiancé’s dad’s dog since he passed and I had taken a photo of her one day and there was a humongous big orb/glare across her. Now here’s something that happened recently. My fiancé said he was sleeping and had a dream someone was telling him to wake up and to watch out for the black figure in front of him watching him sleep. He said it made him wake up and he looked in front of him and seen a 4 ft tall black figure standing in front of him watching him. He said he punched it on instinct, closed his eyes, and it went away. As I’m telling this, I’m getting a pain in my head. I don’t know if I’m just paranoid or what. But I’m 9 weeks pregnant and I know spirits tend to like pregnant people and kids a lot. I’m freaking out because I don’t know what or who this black figure is, and if it’s good or bad. Anyone have any advice? Sorry if I sound crazy😅