Controlling husband

My husband tries to control how much alcohol I drink. But the thing is I only buy airplane size bottles and I only get two vodkas. And the only reason why I had a drink was because I got an adjustment at the orthodontist and it really hurts to eat. He will pick huge fights with me! And if I even try to tell him to eat healthier he gets super mad. And the thing is he'll eat an entire bag of chips and drink a 2 liter of Coke in one sitting which I think is way more unhealthier and that's his way of distressing! But for some reason I'm the I'm the bad guy because I have two drinks?