Cheaters

Has anyone ever stayed with a partner who cheated or was talking with someone, and had the relationship be successful? I hear all the time about “once a cheater always a cheater” and I don’t want to believe that. My husband and I are trying to make our relationship work. I still always think about when the next opportunity for him to cheat would be. Apart from the two times he was talking to other women, he’s a really good guy. I don’t want to leave him because I don’t want to feel like I’m starting my life all over again. And I actually want to stay with him because I see a future with him. We’re trying to get couples counseling but with him working six days a week, it’s difficult. I would love to hear your stories, if you want to share :)