This is going to sound immature and inconsiderate . But please cope with me I need help. I don’t need cranky 40 year olds commenting on how stupid this sounds. I simply need help. Please. If you’re not going to leave a helpful comment I suggest you to leave now.

My boyfriend in the beginning of our relationship was pretty disrespectful by liking other girls half naked pictures on social media....out of respect I stopped doing the same thing with guys because I don’t want my partner feeling uncomfortable in any way. Although when I noticed his acts, I began to do the same thing. He noticed I was liking other guys pictures so he stopped doing it so I could. And that’s how it went....

Although, He says that watching porn is more disrespectful that liking other people’s pictures on social media because porn is a form of “hiding it” even though it was never clear that watching porn was not allowed in the relationship.

He told me how I should’ve told him how liking other girls half naked posts was disrespectful.... but I feel like people do that OUT OF RESPECT and that I shouldn’t be asking for the respect I deserve .

I feel like porn is something private, and that if it’s allowed in the relationship, it’s not something you consider as “hiding” . But liking other girls half naked pictures on social media Is so much different... especially because I’m aware of it... I can see what he’s liking through my own phone. And it honestly makes me insecure... he knows that as well.

He still disagrees with me. I don’t even know who’s in the wrong anymore ... any comments on this ?