I'm glad I communicated 😊
Hey ladies! So I have an update from my post about my husband having that female friend he has a lot in common with.
Today my husband was about to head out and hang out with friends to play magic the gathering. She was gonna be there. I asked if I could talk to him and he said sure. I just told him how I felt. I told him I'm so happy he made a friend that he has so much in common with, but that I'm just feeling insecure. How hearing him talk so much about their love for Harry Potter, anime, Star wars, all that stuff made me feel insecure because I want to bond with him like that and we are so different and it makes me sad. I also told him that I'm kinda worried he will eventually want to be with someone he has something more incommon with.
He hugged me and said he loved me and that he would never leave me. He also told me that its a good thing we are so different because I push him to try new things and that if it wasn't for me he would never go outside. He then said sure he likes talking to her about nerdy stuff but eventually it does get boring but he's never bored talking to me and that he loves everything about me and wouldn't change me for anything. I kind of started crying like a baby and told him I loved him.
After I calmed down I laid on the bed and he came in the room. I reminded him he had to meet his friends in 20 minutes and he "I'll go next week. Want to watch Hamilton? " our love for Hamilton is the one big thing we have in common❤. I'm so happy I just communicated with him!
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