I believe my husband has cheated on me. So before I have sex with him again, I want him to get tested for anything he could have picked up, if he did cheat. He knows that I think he has cheated (I’ve found multiple signs, but no solid “evidence). If I call and make him an appointment, what tests do I need to ask them to run? Std? Sti? Herpes blood test? If you ask for one test, does that cover everything possible to test for?

Please no crap about “if you don’t trust you’re husband, why are you with him?” I want to get tests done, but I don’t know what to ask the doctor for. Thank you.

EDIT:

I want to clear something up for those of you who are confused. I thought it would go without saying, but clearly I would not have sex with my husband again if he tested positive for any form of STD or anything. I know that I am clean because I had the tests done when I birthed our daughter. So if he has picked something up from cheating on me, then that would mean that I would divorce him. Like I stated originally, I don’t have solid evidence that he has cheated, therefore the tests would help me to better make a decision. Yes, we are having marital trust issues. No, that is not cause for divorce, at this point. I don’t see anything wrong with wanting to make sure your partner is clear of STDs before having sex with them, whether married or dating or one-night-standing. So please all of you who are telling me I’m “sad” or whatever for wanting tests done, just refrain from commenting further if you are not genuinely trying to be beneficial to this topic.