Family

Okay so I need some advice and since this is a larger network of things I need some help.

So my youngest 3 weeks old sperm donor hasn’t been in contact in 8 months now. Left in the middle of the night with his daughter back to his mommy without any of his stuff or his daughters. He stopped texting after he got mad because I refused to send the title to MY car to him. Which he took too. So why he left. My daughter is 3 now. 2 at the time. I was working barely part time trying to support him his daughter my daughter and me while also helping my grandma with bills we lived there. He didn’t want to work and stayed shut in the room all day playing video games leaving his daughter in a pack and play all day long while my daughter was with my grandma thank god. He wouldn’t help around the house nothing. When he would have money (from his mommy) he would hide it and say he didn’t have any. If I knew I’d have to beg him to get stuff that his or my daughter needed. Him and my brother are “best friends”

Well fast forward. I had my son. My brother tells me I’m pretty much the worst person in the world because I didn’t tell the sperm donor my child was born. He has no idea what I went through with him or what my daughter went through. (Nothing horrifying or abusive) I just need some advice. Anything honestly. Thanks.