What should i say ? Any advice

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So im 22 and yes i still live with my mom and my grandma ( My grandma is Christian) but my mom is strict with me to the point where she wants my sister or my nephew  to come join me to go out with me and my bf to make sure we are not going to do anything sneaky. They tell me it looks wrong for a female to be alone with a guy even tho he is my 2yr bf.  I really want to go out tonight and we trying to have some alone time but I can’t find what excuse to say so I can go alone. I have tried saying that im going to church (Ikno thats not good), going to car meets or anything so they can get the point. Anybody have any ideas on what to say?

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“I’m an adult. Leave me alone. I’m in the market for apartments.”

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I know the go to advice is, “find your own place”. I agree, except that that incredibly difficult for young people to do right now. Renting is more expensive than it’s been in modern history, and getting worse. If you do have the means to move out though, I’d strongly recommend it. 
Otherwise, I’d tell them you’re happy to follow house rules, like not being alone together there, but that you’re an adult now and what you do outside the home is own business. I’d also stress that part of growing up is making your own choices, and that they have to trust you enough to believe that you’ll make good ones.

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I’m a grown up. I’ll be back later.

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Don't lie. Most people are terrible liars and moms generally know when they're being told something untruthful. Be upfront about where you're going and with whom. If your mom gets upset and tries to send along a chaperone, say no. If she gets angry, remind her that you are an adult and do not need her permission to go out with your boyfriend, nor does she need to like it. Also, it may be worth looking into getting your own place. Living in your own apartment will likely cut down on stress with your mom.

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All I told my mom is that I’m hanging out with (at the time boyfriend now fiancé) and she said be back before midnight because she will locked both locks. She did really lock both locks if I was late. 
Be honest about it though it’s for safety reasons

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I’m going to go look at apartments to rent?

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Be upfront and don't lie. You're an adult, there's no need to lie, she can't keep you from going out. Tell her you're going out with your boyfriend ALONE and you'll be back later. What you decide to do with your boyfriend is none of her business. I know this is hard to do when you have strict parents but if you don't start doing it they're never going to stop. Also if it's within your possibilities I would start looking for my own apartment.

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I literally would be like, leave me the fuck alone i am an adult. Fuck off.

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Create boundaries with them. Say no to them. Tell them you’re an adult and chaperones are not needed.

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I would just tell them straight up. But if you want a lie, just say you’re going grocery shopping or furniture shopping with a friend.

What should i say ? Any advice

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