My boyfriend thinks I’m cheating on him
So this has been an ongoing thing for a couple months no with my boyfriend of a year. I’ve made a lot of mistakes in our relationship but we’ve worked past them. So this all started when I was sleeping otp with him and I woke up to 50 missed calls. I called back and he said he heard me moaning like I was having sex. Side note I live downstairs and people upstairs are constantly walking and it sounds loud. He also said that he heard footsteps and it sounded like they were right there. I’ve also been otp with one of my friends and she said that it does sound like that too. So he’d hear me moaning otp sometimes and he would say it sounded like I was really having sex and I would just be knocked out sleep. I move in my sleep as well and I’ve accidentally pushed my phone off the bed or under my pillow and it’s lost connection a couple times. And he’d say that I would do that on purpose. I would try to explain these things to him but he says it just sounds like bullshit. He eventually pulled up twice. Once in the night and once in the morning. When he pulled up I woke up to him using his phone flashlight and knocking on my window. I went outside and talked to him and we were good. Later on he says that my screen was gone. Which makes absolutely no sense because my window screen is 100% always there. The only thing is that I keep it popped out a little because I used to sneak out and I’ve forgotten to pop it back into place. Then the next time he pulls up in the morning. I wake up to him knocking on the window. Previously that same night I was getting mad because he kept going on about if I was cheating and fw someone else that would be sick and we kept going back and forth. I got extremely mad and I pulled my shorts apart and heard a rip sound and I checked to see where it ripped but I didn’t find anything (keep this in mind). Then when I go out to talk to him in those shorts side note sometimes I don’t wear underwear to sleep and I didn’t happen to have underwear that morning, we take a walk and sit down and talk it out. So we’re good I go back in the house and decide to put on sum underwear. I take of the shorts and notice it’s ripped on the crotch area and I think nothing of it and find it funny so I send him a snap of it and tell him how funny it is. He goes crazy saying that hole is a size of a dick and this and that basically going back to saying I’m cheating all that. So that’s just another thing that adds onto the list of bs that makes it seem like I’m cheating. I don’t know what to do at this point I’ve expressed to him how much this hurts that he doesn’t believe me and how I’m not capable of something like that and it’s just not working. It even went to the point where he would have me set up my phone so he could watch me sleep at one point and he would even have me send him pictures of my punani before going to sleep and as soon as I woke up so he could analyze it and make sure it didn’t look different. And he would say that it would looks different that it would look stretched out like I just had sex but I would literally just be sleep the entire night. I could go on about a couple more things but yea.
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