No trust💔 how to trust again ?

Question

I can’t seem to trust my husband, I don’t trust him alone, I don’t trust him around his toxic family. I don’t trust him because he has lied before about things like watching porn and taking on the phone with someone (no cheating). And I don’t trust him alone with his family because his mom always asks EVERYTHING and wants to know Everything and I’m not comfortable with her knowing everything in our marriage. Also she has her “ideas” and that affects my husband and our relationship. I know it’s bad not to have trust but HOW CAN I TRUST HIM AGAIN???!!!!!

Answer

Obviously therapy is the go to solution. But If your husband has broken your trust, and you look past that, and he breaks your trust again, that’s on you. Try to remember the whole “fool me once shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.” You’ve been shown that you can’t trust him, and YOU are the one choosing to look past that. If he breaks your trust gain, it’s YOUR problem since you were shown this behavior and looked past it. If you don’t fully believe that this behavior won’t happen again, you can’t fully trust again. 
That being said, expecting someone not to talk to their family seems unhealthy. You’re telling your husband not to talk to important people in his life and you’re dictating what he can and can not talk about and that’s very controlling. If he were telling you to do these things, we’d all be telling you to leave.

No trust💔 how to trust again ?

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