Me and my husband has been in a relationship since were a teenager. 6 years. We're sexually super active back then. But when we get married, he's losing all his sexual desire. Im the only one who insist always. We only have intercourse once or twice a month (where it's me who insist.) He always say no, he isnt feeling well, he is tired, he wanted to play computer games, etc.

We're now 24yrs old (me) and he is 26. We communicate openly about it. And he said he is in a phase where his sexual desire is low. Ive done everything. I talk to him on what excites him, his reference, i seduce him, i wear sexy outfir. But i feel like im giving up on this aspect of our relationship. Everything else except this sex time is fine. He's a nice loving, caring husband and he do everything to make me and our child happy. But this is an excemption.

I feel like i no longer excites him. Should i give up and stop talking about it to him? Or not to insist anymore? What should i do? 😔

He is sad whenever he see me disappointed when he cant give what i want.