Tell me like it is, what you think, etc..

So I ended an abusive and manipulative rship of 4 in a half years last year back in September. I finally starting back dating about 2 months ago and so far everything is legit. Taking it VERY slow though. I’m a Virgo so I think before I judge. I over analyze a lot which I’m working on but as I said, everything about him seems legit even though everyone starts out like that. The Moral is, He is an Ass man. Most men are. My last one was and disrespected and hurt me but he had a young boys mentality. This one is more mature that I know of. Should I just not think so all over the place about it and just continue on with building with him. Or keep him in the gutter? He likes to party every weekend too and go to strip clubs sometimes. He also has a REALLY high sex drive. I swear I’m trying not to panic about these things Since he swears he’s ready to settle for marriage and start a family. He’s a Capricorn so he’s an Earth sign like me. He’s been single for a year. He has all the gateways to do whatever he wants with other women. He caught me in the mist of self healing, and trusting someone with my love and heart again. Should I just continue to stop worrying so much and let it all just play out? He claims he likes me and his actions show it. Idk I’m just a confused, over-thinker