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He wants to have a BBQ with his friends from high school today, well we planned to have the party and then Wednesday and Thursday got completely taken out by a bad stomach flu.

I am very knowledgeable about viruses and disinfection and I know that norovirus can't be killed easily on a couch or carpet and things of that nature.

My husband didn't include me in the group text for the party planning and even though I've been telling him I'm nervous about the party and I think we should cancel and that it needs to be an outside party, he's throwing a huge fit. All because he wants his buddies in here to play video games. He's saying that I said it would be fine (gaslighting much?) And that I'm putting my foot down and being controlling.

He does this kind of garbage all the time whenever I put up the slightest opposition to him gaming with his brothers or his buddies. If I dare to think logically and say anything contradictory to what he wants he acts like a child not getting their way. Usually there's nothing I can say until after he gets his way he'll apologize for being rude AF.

Jaylynn there's nothing wrong with buddies coming over. What's wrong is that we've been sick and throwing up and i don't want anyone to get sick so I suggested we keep the party outside and he's freaking out about that.

I actually think he's being selfish putting his friends in harm's way.

Soooooo party is cancelled. My husband finally added me in the group chat and I laid down some facts about norovirus and they weren't comfortable with it after all.