Am I Squirting??

Question

So when my boyfriend fingers me I can kinda push a little when he’s going really fast and loads of water sprays out which I always guessed was squirting. Kinda feels like I need a wee when it happens but I’ve read that’s how it’s supposed to be. But I’ve also read it’s meant to be an orgasm and I mean, I don’t think I’m feeling it as an orgasm 😂 so am I squirting or what? It just doesn’t feel “good” like an orgasm but it’s alright I guess

Answer

You are quite right. Squirting is not an orgasm. It can happen during an orgasm, or at any other time during stimulation or penetration.
In a woman, the urethra is very short, and the sphincter muscles closing the bladder is right there where you can put pressure on them from hard rubbing through the vaginal wall.
During stimulation, the blood flow to your pelvis increases dramatically, causing your bladder to fill rapidly. When he presses on that front wall of your vagina, it puts the sphinter muscle and your bladder under further pressure causing it to release that fluid. If this happens during sexual activity, we call it squirting or gushing. The fluid is mostly diluted urine. If you let it dry, you will smell the typical urine smell.
Many women and men find great enjoyment in this. If you do not, please tell him that you do not enjoy that all that much. Educating him willl is important. Just like many women do not understand their bodies, even more men do not understand our bodies. So he only knows what he sees in porn, what his friends tells him, or most importantly, what you teach him. He is very likely thinking that he is doing you a great service. You can just go “when you rub hard there on the front wall of my vagina, it makes me uncomfortable, but when yo XXXX, it feels so much better.
You may also want to have a conversation with him about your clitoris, and how you like to have it touched when he starts, in the middle and before you orgasm. Explain to him that all women are not the same.
It is good to leave a guy with more knowledge about a womans body than he had when he met you. His next girlfriend wil thank you, or if you stay together, it will pay off for many years in the future. Real men want nothing more than to please their partners, and with knowledge comes the power to do so.

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