Connected with your baby?

Question

I’m one day short from being 4 months and this is my 4th child. I don’t look pregnant yet and haven’t felt the baby move or seen any great pictures in my two scans so I don’t feel any connection with my baby yet:/ I feel horrible but maybe I’m still in disbelief I feel like such a bad mom since I haven’t felt any connection

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I did not feel a connection with my babies until after they were born. Of course I loved them but it was still kind of abstract until they were in my arms. Don’t worry it will come

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Don't feel terrible honey sometimes it just takes longer to feel that connection. With three other kids and a whole life going on around you im sure you just haven't had the chance to let it all settle. Itll come. You're still a wonderful mother ❤ you're given 9 months to create this life you don't need to feel it all right away.

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I don’t really feel a connection until I feel/see actual kicks. Before then it feels like nothing is really there. It’s totally normal! A connection with form with time ☺️

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With my first, I didn't develop a connection until like a month after he was born. Now I'm pregnant with my second and I think it will be the same.

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