Help Please

So i’m sixteen and i want to know my body better. Overall i think i should be more knowledgeable on all the quirks that come with being a girl, but mostly i want to know how to um... “please” myself.

I know it sounds weird because i’m still young but i feel left out because i don’t know how to feel good by myself. I’m still very much a virgin and have never done anything with guys, but i want to first know how to make myself feel good before having experiences with boys. I have felt good by myself before multiple times, but never by um... fingering myself. This is embarrassing.

I can’t ask anyone i know in real life about this but i want to know how i am supposed to touch myself so that it feels good. Every time i try to finger myself it only hurts and i don’t know how i am supposed to orgasm from it, or even what a full true orgasm is like. I want to know how to touch myself and what a real orgasm will feel like.

Please help i feel so pathetic as a female.