Birth control recommendations

Okay so I’m over it! I’ve been on the nexplanon implant 3 times now... mine is scheduled to expire in December and need another option.

For 1- I have had months without a cycle then other months that’s it’s ALL dang month and it’s annoying!

2- I’ve gained significant weight and I’m healthy and eat right and no matter how hard I workout the weight will not drop, even had my panels drawn and they said I’m really healthy and they don’t understand it either- wondering if the nexplanon is creating this issue...

Lastly 3- I never feel like I have a Libido and feel constantly depressed (yes I’m aware of COVID but it’s not the issue I’m an introvert naturally)

So my question is what would you recommend that has a monthly cycle, does not give off weight gain and has a balanced hormone levels??? Is there such a thing?