Annoyed by baby name discussion

Or lack there of

I’ve been told I have an 80% chance of having baby prior to 30w due to a health condition. My other 3 all got progressively earlier because of it.

I want to start discussing names as I’m already 22w. My partner disagrees and keeps saying we have plenty of time to worry about it.

Last time, we picked a first name while I was in labor (via text as he wasn’t allowed in because he had the flu and pneumonia) and a middle name a few hours after birth. It wasn’t a name either of us loved, just a name neither of us disliked. I DO NOT want to be in that situation again and have made that clear to him.

I have had tons of anxiety about prepping things early this time so that I’m not caught off guard. I have told him this so many times.

So I told him he has 2 weeks to start giving me names or I’m picking it myself. So now he’s being immature and won’t even talk to me because he thinks I’m being controlling.

I’m not even insisting we CHOOSE one in two weeks, but rather, start discussing it as this pregnancy is flying along 😩😩😩

Also, we’re not finding out the gender so that’s FOUR names we have to pick (two first and two middle)