Cooking

So contrary to my SO, i grew up living with my gmaw. Unlike most people’s gmaw, mine was not a cooking gmaw. I never learned even the basics of cooking. Im 24 now. I have a SO and a 8month old. I’ve tried and get so frustrated with cooking because i don’t even know the basics like know when something is “tender” or knowing when grease it hot enough. My SO doesn’t say much but what man doesn’t want to come home to a cooked a meal everynight or a even a few times a week. Feeling like a complete failure... idk🥺🥺🥺