Moms, How are yall doing it?

My oldest will be 2 in August and our little one will be 2 weeks tomorrow & I feel like I'm "struggling" to bond with baby... mostly because our toddler is very active and I cant hold/rock the newborn nearly as much as I did with our first.

It's making me feel really guilty if I put more attention towards one more than the other.

The little one is spending most of her time in the swing or bassinet because that's a safe space from our toddler but I just feel so guilty.

Please tell me I'm not alone