How to compete with all these bad bi:(he’s?

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I’m 29 and I’m really petite. I have no hips B cup boobs and no butt. I feel so insecure when it comes to dating. Mind you I’m only 4’11 so I feel like I child. How can I compete when all guys want are girls who have bit tits and asses like Doja Cat, Megan thee stallion and Cardi B. I’m 29 I shouldn’t have to feel this way but dating has proved to me this is what guys want when it comes to a woman’s body. I’m sorry I just feel like I have to rant. Skinny girls like me have no chance anymore.

Accepted Answer

Comparison is a thief of joy. Learn to love yourself.

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Thats definitely not all guys want. There are plenty of guys like like more petite women.

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But do you really want a guy, who just wants the sort of a girl you describe you are not?

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I’d rather date someone who loves my personality, not just looks. To have a relationship and be constantly worrying if they like my body.. it sounds exhausting. Life is too short for that. ✨Also, there’s so many “thick” girls who wish they were skinny instead. Don’t let media tell you what’s beautiful. True beauty comes from the inside.

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Your issue here is thinking that men are all the same and only want whatever body type is currently popular. If the guys you are seeing are only interested in physical appearance then forget having a relationship because theyll get tired of a girl with their idea of an attractive body and nothing else.

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I feel you on this on so many levels. 28, 5’2, 120 lbs, b cups. If anyone feels you on this I certainly do. It’s especially hard when all the medias show us that “thick” is more appealing than our build. My best advice to you is embrace it. Embrace it and work on your confidence. It’s not a one and done either. It’s literally a daily effort. I think the biggest struggle I have with this is comparing myself to other women. I’m definitely working on it though so if you need an ear I’m always here to listen. 💘

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Girl you have to find yourself first and love yourself first before looking for a man. I by no means am perfect. I could stand to loose 20 lbs myself. But I tell myself I am enough, I am beautiful and I love myself. And that my bf chose me for me. Not because I have size (?) bra cup or whatever size a$$.

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All men have different types 🤷‍♀️ so just because that’s the more popular look doesn’t mean all men like it.. my husband prefers skinnier girls bs. Curvier 🤷‍♀️ doesn’t like bigger boobs because he considers them saggy even when they aren’t 😒 lmao. But hey works for me and my little titties lmaoo and tiny ass

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Work on your self confidence and know that there are men out there who are attracted to all kinds of different body types. Personally I think it’s also important to be liked/admired for my personality and who I am more than my body, and I don’t go for guys that are that shallow.

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Have you ever stopped to think that maybe it’s the type of guys that you are dating want those particular body types and not every guy? 
My best advice to you is not to compete with anyone, be yourself and be confident and happy in your own skin. Trust me confidence is just as attractive as any body part.
A guy is out there for you, hopefully you’ll find him soon.

How to compete with all these bad bi:(he’s?

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